Movin' On Up

[dougo]

Here's some news: I am moving out and getting my own place, possibly as soon as May 1st. Nothing against my roommate, but it feels like it's time to live on my own again, now that I can afford it. I'm also getting tired of the daily commute to work; it's only 25-30 minutes each way, but it's a somewhat stressful drive, and I have better ways to spend that 4-5 hours a week. So I'm looking in the Burlington/Lexington/Bedford area.

The prudent thing to do would be to stay here until I have enough money saved up for a decent-sized down payment on a house. But that's probably still another year or two away, and I don't want to wait that long to move out (nor do I want to borrow from my 401k or get a "no money down" mortgage). Besides, everyone says the real estate market is going down, or at least not going up, so I don't think I'm missing out on anything by waiting. Fortunately my roommate has a friend who's willing to assume my share of the lease, so I won't have to break the lease (though I will probably end up paying double rent for at least part of May).

The other main reason not to buy now is that I'm not yet sure I want to settle down in the Boston area. I'm reasonably happy at my job (and I just got a nice raise) but right now I don't see myself staying there long term. If some great opportunity comes up on the West Coast a year or two from now, I'd like to have the flexibility to think about moving. So I'm feeling like a holding action is the right choice.

I'm a little apprehensive about moving to the suburbs. It will be weird not being able to walk to a restaurant, cafe, convenience store, bank, dentist, doctor, auto mechanic, movie theater, game store, friend's apartment, or the T. On the other hand, I can get a single-family house, which means a garage, a yard, no upstairs or downstairs neighbors, and maybe even a quiet street. I think it will be a net win, but it will take some lifestyle adjustments.

It's somewhat slim pickings for single-family rentals in the area I'm restricting myself to (less than 10 minutes commute time), but I've been to two decent candidates so far and I just replied to two craigslist ads. The one I'm leaning towards is a 2-story 3BR/2Ba on the north edge of Lexington, in a quiet, woodsy area. It has a big patio and a stone grill, so I'd be having some barbecues this summer. That's sounding pretty nice.

Comments

[mattsnaps.livejournal.com]

I moved from Seattle to the burbs a few years ago. There was some culture shock. Instead of being surrounded by UW students, I suddenly felt surrounded by 40 year old women in Adidas track outfits and too much makeup, pushing $300 designer strollers or driving their $50,000 SUVs five blocks to Starbucks.

Of course, we moved five blocks away from a shopping area (including the aforementioned Starbucks), so at least we can walk to stuff. And I was pushing a stroller too, so now I can sit down next to the rich bitches at the park and say hello, which took some doing for me.

Oh, and we moved to be closer to our jobs at the Borg, and then we both quit within a year or two. Good times.

If you're used to getting to things on foot, try hard not to give that up. It's too big a lifestyle change.

[dougo.livejournal.com]

I've lived in places where I have to drive everywhere, it's just been a while. I think I can get used to it again. I may even start cooking for myself for once. I might also get a bike.